09/03/2026
I’m going to hold your hand when I say this, but “Say cheese” is probably the fastest way to ruin a family photo.
There, I said it. 😂
When you ask everyone to smile at the camera, you usually get exactly that: everyone smiling at the camera. It looks nice. But it doesn’t tell you much about the people in the photo.
With kids, I’d much rather talk to them and see where the session goes. I’ll ask about whatever they’re talking about, make a dumb joke, get down on their level, and let them be a little weird.
The parents usually loosen up pretty quickly when they realize they don’t have to keep getting everyone to look at the camera. And that’s when I start getting the photos I want.
After 5 years of photographing families around Seattle, I’ve found that the less I direct a family to “look here” and “smile,” the more natural the photos feel.
I want you to look back at them and remember what your kids were actually like at that age, not just what they looked like when someone told them to smile.
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