10/31/2026
This is the quieter side of me, the one I don’t usually lead with.
I’m pretty intuitive (okay, a little woo). I pull a card every night before bed, and it’s one of my favorite parts of the day.
A few nights ago I pulled Rebel / Revolutionary. Its shadow side is conformity, and it made me see something I’d been avoiding.
This part of me has always been there. I just hadn’t fully accepted her. For years I tried to fit into the bucket I thought I was supposed to be in, both as a photographer and in how I showed up in the world. Conformity felt safer, so I kept her quiet.
But she’s a big part of how I work. During a session I’m watching the light, and I’m also paying attention to how you’re feeling, what you need, and the moment you start to relax into being yourself.
So I’m letting her in a little more around here, and soon in my sessions too. Same LoveJoy, just more of me.
If you have a ritual like this, I’d love to hear about it.