10/12/2026
A little reminder from your photographer. 📸❤️
I want to address a few things because lately, I’ve experienced situations that have made me realize I need to be a little firmer with my boundaries.
First and foremost, if you have not paid your retainer, you do NOT have a confirmed booking. A retainer is what secures your date and time. Without it, that spot remains available to other clients.
If you cancel with less than 24 hours’ notice, you forfeit all payments made toward your session. I understand that life happens and some circumstances are completely beyond our control. Because of that, I do consider offering credit on a case-by-case basis. I have a heart, I have compassion, and I genuinely try to work with people. But I also have to be fair to myself.
Please understand that when you reserve a date with me, I am setting aside that time specifically for YOU. I’m turning away other potential bookings, arranging my schedule, and preparing to provide you with the best experience possible.
This is my livelihood, not just a hobby. I take my work seriously, and I deserve the same level of respect and professionalism that I give my clients.
If you’ve ever met me, you know I’m a genuinely kind, easygoing person. I love laughing with my clients, making people comfortable, and creating beautiful memories. But being kind does not mean I don’t have boundaries, and being understanding does not mean my time is any less valuable.
Lately, I’ve dealt with unnecessary attitudes, extreme tardiness, last-minute expectations, people trying to dictate how I do my job, and situations where I’m expected to provide far more than what was originally agreed upon or paid for.
I always try to go above and beyond, but there is a difference between appreciating someone’s kindness and taking advantage of it.
I’m not confrontational, and I don’t enjoy having to make posts like this. All I ask is that you treat me, my time, and my business with the same consideration you would expect in return.
And please know, I am completely okay with not being everyone’s photographer. Not every client and photographer will be the right fit, and that’s perfectly fine! I want my sessions to be positive, comfortable, and enjoyable for everyone involved.
I love what I do. I love my clients. And I refuse to let a handful of unpleasant experiences take away the joy I have for photography.
Kindness is free. Respect goes both ways. And boundaries are not bad customer service. ❤️
At this point, I’m about to add a $299 inconvenience fee for unnecessary attitudes. 😭😂 JUST KIDDING… mostly. 😅📸
