07/20/2026
When I needed a website in the early 2000s, my studio manager recommended a web developer, Jennifer Precious Finch (). Marlene said she was cool, and the bass player for the band L7. Precious, as she is known to her friends, was creative and talented on every level, musically and visually. She was real, so real, and so down to earth. I was never a schmoozer, probably to my detriment, but Precious was always cool to be around.
When my wife Elizabeth closed up shop in Brooklyn and moved to LA, she said she was excited to be able to spend more time with her best friend, a woman named Precious. I was like, Precious, Jennifer? I was surprised; what a coincidence. Although there are no real coincidences in life.
Last year in January (25), Precious called me and needed to grab something at our place. We were talking; I had mentioned that Elizabeth was on a 6-week shoot in Bangkok and I really, really missed her. I was worried about my wife, who was getting lonely there and was physically exhausted. I tried to convince her to come home early for her 40th birthday, but she had two more shoots scheduled and could not.
Precious just looked at me and said, “You have to go; you have to surprise her, and I am buying you a ticket!" I was kind of shocked since I was not expecting it, but seized the opportunity. Surprising Elizabeth was the best thing I have ever done in my life. I still think about it, and will always remember Precious for it. Jumping headfirst off the cliff, taking the chance, was very Precious, and she encouraged her friend to be bold also.
For the past few years, on my wife’s birthday (a different birthday), Precious and I would hold hands and give Elizabeth a cake together. She was one of a kind, just filled with love. I always had a tear in my eye in the room because the care we all had for each other was palpable.
Since February, we have been rooting for her. Elizabeth was a major support, but this past week she took a turn for the worse. Thursday night, Elizabeth and I got to hold her hand and say our goodbyes, in a hospital room filled with at least 20 people. She was well loved. Saturday afternoon we got the news, though, that she had succumbed to her illness. It’s been a long 5 days for Elizabeth and me; we are both exhausted. Seeing the love that so many people had for her was truly awe-inspiring. She touched many hearts.
We will miss you, Precious, and we will take care of Jack.