16/10/2026
𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝟰 𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗣𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔 𝗪𝗜𝗙𝗘 𝗢𝗥 𝗔 𝗛𝗨𝗦𝗕𝗔𝗡𝗗
Some people do need a bit of help when it comes to this topic; we are here for you:
𝟭. 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗢𝗻𝗲: 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝘆
Ask God, your Heavenly Father for the desires of your heart. After all, He knows exactly what you need. And He’s concerned about you. Why struggle alone in silence when you have God, the creator of the universe in your corner?
𝟮. 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗧𝘄𝗼: 𝗠𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀.
Meet People who have the potential of being your partners. You need to leave your comfort zone and go to where your potential partners are. Attend church. Attend weddings. As they say in Sepedi that “Lenyalo le tšwa lenyalong!” Meaning “marriage comes from marriage!” And in isiZulu that “uzoyithola kanjani uhleli ekhoneni”? Meaning how will you get it when you’re sitting nicely in your corner.
𝟯. 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲: 𝗨𝗽𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳
Work on yourself. Improve yourself. Become more attractive today than you were last year. And we do not mean go get a BBL. Gym - perhaps. School - definitely. Starting a business - Yes. Getting a job - of course! Building better habits - a must!
𝟰. 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿: 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗹!
Have realistic expectations. You can only marry human beings who are not perfect. Some people will only consider Prince Charming or someone with Motsepe’s bank balance. Or Miss Universe who is also a PhD in Nuclear Physics! It’s best to start with a real human being who has potential and work your way up than hoping an angel will come down from heaven or Steyn City to ask for your hand in marriage.
