08/27/2026
Someone told me they didnât want a birth plan because birth planâs âfailâ when things change.
But a birth planâs job was never to make birth go according to plan.
You canât control exactly how labor will unfold.
You *can* spend sometime before labor thinking through what matters to you, learning about the decision you may be asked to make, and talking through your preferences with your partner and provider.
Then, if something changes, youâre not encountering all of those decisions for the first time while youâre exhausted, overwhelmed, or in the middle of contractions.
Thatâs the real value of making a birth plan.
The plan itself is useful. But the preparation that happens while youâre making it is even more important.
If youâre preparing for a hospital birth and want somewhere to start, I have a free Birth Plan Blueprint linked in my bio. It walks you through the decisions and preferences you may want to think about before labor.