05/11/2026
I hope all the mamas had a great Mother’s Day yesterday. On Saturday, I did something risky and let my 9 year old assist me on a surprise proposal shoot.
As mothers, sometimes we must give our children opportunities to surprise us, to rise to the occasion to prove what they are capable of.
My son, Ben, has had the spirit of an entrepreneur since he was a tiny boy. He’s always coming up with business ideas and asking for ways he can make money. He saves it up and rarely spends it on silly things.
I took a big chance on him and invited him to come help me with a high stakes shoot, a surprise marriage proposal, on a mountain top at sunset. He helped me carry things, took behind the scenes photos and videos till my phone died, then I let him grab some shots with my extra camera. He was a total natural.
My client even gave him a nice tip at the end of it. I knew he could do it, though I wasn’t prepared for how he would exceed my expectations. I love watching my kids grow and change, and discover things that light them up inside.
The pride in my son’s face at the end of the sunset proposal was priceless. This isn’t something I do often, as my business and relationship with my clients is really important to me. I just knew it was the right time and place for Ben to step up, and my clients will get some extra fun bonus shots. The groom was a photo assistant at one time, and he was so kind to ask Ben to take certain photos and treated him like he was a true professional.
A nature photographer was also hanging out at this spot for sunset, and she offered to take a photo and me and Ben to commemorate his first assisting gig. It was one of the highlights of my Mother's Day weekend at Grayson Highlands State Park.