08/25/2026
There’s a difference between a photographer capturing candids on your wedding day, and capturing candids you actually like yourself in.
You’ve probably noticed it while out with friends. The mission for girls night is to get one cute candid for the gram. That’s it. You go through your photos hoping for that one effortless candid, and instead you catch yourself mid-scrunch, shoulders tense, bracing instead of laughing.
It’s not that you’re not photogenic. It’s that the moment the camera comes out, your body knows it before your brain does.
You’ve seen the version you want a thousand times over, scrolling TikTok for wedding inspo, watching influencer after influencer look effortless both in front of a camera and in the b-roll they posted from every part of the day (i mean we all saw Shay Sullivans wedding right?) So the next time a friend lifts their phone at a party, you feel yourself angle your chin, hold your breath, “pose” without meaning to.
I see it all the time at weddings. Nothing ruins a candid faster than the second you know the camera is there, and well… stop being candid.
Here’s what I’ve learned after years of doing this professionally: real candid photography isn’t about catching people off guard. It’s about waiting until they forget you’re there.
That takes patience most photographers aren’t willing to give you. It’s easy to check “get candids of the night” off a shot list and head back to standing in the corner of the room counting down your coverage time. It’s a lot harder to stay in the room watching for the moment your guard actually drops. Directing wedding party images and then capturing the walks and moments in between. Staging your family formals, then capturing the hugs and fist bumps as each pair walks up to greet you.
The real laugh, not the reflex.
That’s the difference.
VENDORS
Planning: E & E Design Company
Venue: Waverly Estate Wedding and Event Venue
Dress: Studio I Do Bridals Wedding Dress Shop
Florals: Something Borrowed Blooms- Premium Silk Flower Rentals