05/02/2026
📌 So I’m in the store… minding my business… just grabbing a few things.
And a woman walks up to me, kinda smiling but a little nervous… and she says, “Excuse me… are you the ‘Listen To Me’ pastor from social media?” 👀
I laughed…🤣I said, “Yeah, that’s me.” She said, “Can I take a picture?” 🤳 I said, “Of course.” So we take the picture… we both smiling… light moment… But then something shifted 💨
Because after the picture 📸 , she didn’t walk away.
Her tone changed. Her eyes got heavy 🥺And she said… “Sir… I just want to tell you… I follow your wisdom… but I stopped going to church years ago.” I said, “What happened?” She paused… took a breath…
And said, “I was married… 💍 to a pastor… and he stepped out on me……Silence.
She said, “That thing shattered me. 💔 Not just my marriage… my faith. I stopped believing in love… and honestly… I was upset at God.”
Now watch this…What started as a picture…turned into a deliverance session‼️
I looked at her and said…”Can I say something… but I need you to hear me with your heart… & not your hurt.”
She nodded. I said, “What happened to you was real… and it was wrong.” But don’t confuse what he did… with what God designed.” Because too many people take a broken experience… and build a belief system out of it.
I told her, “When people say ‘wives get cheated on too’…”that’s not wisdom… that’s wounded agreement. 💔 That’s somebody lowering their expectation… to match what they’ve seen go wrong. I said, “Everybody that gets married… wasn’t led by God.” “Everybody that says ‘I do’… didn’t have discernment before they did it.” Some people don’t enter covenant… they enter pressure… loneliness… timing… comfort… So when it breaks… they blame the institution… instead of the FOUNDATION 😮
I told her, “Ma’am… cheating is not a covenant issue…”
It’s a character issue.” And what that man did not expose God… it exposed him‼️
I could see it hitting her…You know that look when somebody is hearing truth…but it’s undoing years of pain at the same time?I kept going…I said, Don’t let trauma turn into theology.” Just because you experienced it wrong… doesn’t mean it can’t be done right.” Because when God is actually in something…
it’s not confusing…it’s not constantly breaking you…
There’s peace with it. 🧩✨
She started tearing up…Right there… in the store.
And she said, So you’re saying… it wasn’t God that failed me?” I said, No ma’am… God didn’t fail you…
a man made a choice… and his character couldn’t sustain his covenant.” And I told her this… And if you keep believing ‘all men cheat’…”you’ll start tolerating behavior that confirms that belief.” But when you heal…”your standards change… your discernment sharpens… and what you entertain… shifts.” I said, God is not asking you to go back to what hurt you He’s inviting you to heal… so you can recognize what’s whole.”
Man… when I tell you… something lifted off of her. Her posture changed. Her face softened.bIt was like she came in carrying years of weight… and left that aisle… lighter. She looked at me and said, “I think I’ve been blaming God for something He didn’t do.” I said, “That’s what pain will do if you don’t process it properly.” We prayed right there… in the store. Just God… doing what He does. And before she left, she said something I won’t forget… She said,
“I think I can believe again.”
Listen to me… 👀🔥 Don’t let one broken experience…
convince you that God’s design is broken. Because when God does it… it’s not perfect because people are perfect…It’s whole…because He is in it. 💍✨