08/04/2026
๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ง?
"I'll book once I lose the weight."
I hear this very often. Although, it's never really about the weight.
She says: I'll do it once my hair is done. Once I feel more like myself. Once things settle down.
I understand. I have said versions of this, too.
But after years of photographing women, I have learned the wait is never really about any of this.
When you avoid the camera, you are not avoiding a photograph. You are avoiding how you have learned to see yourself. And that picture in your head is almost always harsher than anything a lens has ever held.
So to the women waiting to be seen - to be photographed. You are worth it.
๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ง, ๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ? ๐๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ?
That is the work. Not the light. Not the pose. The moment you look at your own face and something in you goes quiet. That's you. And you don't look away.
You do not earn your way to being seen by changing first.
You change by letting yourself be seen.
If you have been waiting for a better version of yourself to arrive before you book, ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก: ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐. ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐.
Let's have a chat.
