10/20/2026
I try not to get too sappy on here, because I weirdly try to mask the fact that I am incredibly sensitive and in my feels 24/7.
But I was talking on the phone with my sister the other day and she was telling me that all she wants for her birthday this year are family photos. And she started getting emotional talking about how she feels like time is slipping through her fingers and her kids are changing so quickly that she can barely keep up. And how photos are really the only thing that make her feel like she can slow it all down a little. Or not even slow it down, but at least have something to look back on when she can’t remember exactly what this time in her life felt like.
And I don’t know, something about hearing her say that really got to me.
Maybe because I feel the exact same way. Maybe because I spend so much of my life photographing other people’s families and then realize I haven’t even booked our own family photos this year (which sent me into an immediate panic after we hung up).
But I keep thinking about how much of our lives we just assume we’re going to remember. And how much of it we probably won’t.
I look back at photos of my daughter from even six months ago and feel like I’m looking at a completely different little person. And I was there for all of it. Every single day. Yet somehow I already forget things about those versions of her.
I think that’s the part that gets me the most. You can be so present in your life and still have it all go by too quickly.
Anyway, I don’t really know where I’m going with this other than to say that I think photographs might be one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. And I know that probably sounds like something a photographer is supposed to say, but I mean it in the most personal way possible.
Take the photos. Get in them too. Even when life feels chaotic or you don’t particularly love how you look or you keep telling yourself you’ll do it next year.
Because one day you’re going to want to remember what all of this looked like. And I think you’ll be really glad you did.