08/17/2026
I recently received a comment on my coaching page that rubbed me the wrong way and I want to unpack it with you.
I was talking about how there are two main business structures within photography. One that (to me) feels impersonal. Basically all communication is done over email or messenger, you donāt get to meet your photographer or have a consult beforehand, hair and makeup is on you to figure out, you show up, the photographer takes pictures, and in a couple weeks an email arrives in your inbox with your images. Simple streamlined- works for a lot of people and theyāre happy with it. There is nothing inherently wrong with this business model, itās just not for me.
On the other hand, there is a boutique experience that a lot of people enjoy. I was sharing about why I love offering a full service experience and what it has done for my business. Being able to meet you-my client- before you ever step foot in front of my camera, giving you guidance, brainstorming, sometimes even going shopping together- truly getting to know you and what is important to you. Then providing hair and makeup so itās one less worry, one less piece of work for you on your already full plate. Our sessions are relaxed, I know what music you like, favorite snacks- and then when itās time to select your photos, I know your session goals, where these photos are going whether itās in your walls, in an album or on a billboard and this allows me to help you choose photos based on my 11 years of expertise.
These are the things that I shared and I received the comment that doing this āliterally sucks my soulā and the follow up to when I shared why I loved it and that I like spending time with my clients and getting to know them āyeah thatās why I canāt stand itā while I know a more in depth process isnāt for everyone I stopped for a second because why would you get into portrait photography if you donāt like people? If you donāt like your clients, why be a people photographer? There are countless avenues for creative expression. Why work with people who are trusting you to be safe and supported if you are counting down the minutes until you can get away from th