04/17/2026
I’m going to say something that might feel a little uncomfortable… but it’s also probably the reason you keep circling back to this and not actually booking.
You don’t need a reason to want this.
Not a birthday.
Not a partner.
Not a “milestone.”
Not a “I finally lost the weight.”
Just… wanting it is enough.
And I know that sounds simple, but for a lot of women, that’s actually the hardest part.
Because you’ve spent years being the one who shows up for everyone else.
The one who makes sure everything is handled.
The one who doesn’t ask for much.
So when something like this comes up...something that is purely for you, something that doesn’t serve anyone else, something that doesn’t make you more productive or more useful..
your brain immediately goes:
“Okay but what’s the point?”
The point is… there doesn’t have to be one.
You are allowed to want to feel something again.
You are allowed to want to see yourself differently.
You are allowed to take up space in a way that isn’t tied to what you do for other people.
And if you’ve been sitting here thinking about this for weeks… months… maybe longer.
That’s not random.
That’s you.
Not the version of you that takes care of everything.
You.
And she’s been trying to get your attention for a minute now.