06/17/2026
Do we actually have to do that? đśđŤŁ
A question I wish more couples would ask.
Because the answer is usually...
No.
You do not have to do a bouquet toss.
You do not have to do a garter toss.
You do not have to cut a cake if you donât even like cake.
You do not have to stand in a receiving line shaking 150 hands when all you want is 10 minutes alone with your new spouse.
You do not have to follow a wedding rule book written by people youâve never met.
Hereâs your permission slip:
If a tradition feels meaningful, keep it.
If youâre excited about it, do it.
If it sounds fun, absolutely.
But if youâre only doing it because you think youâre supposed to?
Skip it.
The best weddings Iâve photographed werenât the ones that followed every tradition.
They were the ones where the couple made intentional choices.
The weddings where they stopped asking, âWhat are we supposed to do?â
And started asking, âWhat would make this day feel like us?â
Thatâs when the magic happens.
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