05/23/2026
When people get their photos back from me, often I hear “wow is that really me?!”
YES! It’s you! Beautiful, amazing you!
Here’s the deal:
📱 Cell phones have rounded lenses. This warps, elongates, and widens our proportions. It makes our noses the most prominent focal points, can make our foreheads and chins look much longer than they are, and widen our bodies. Often this is why we HATE selfies.
🪞 Mirrors, while more proportionally reliable, are reverse images of our actual self. We are still not seeing our true self, so this is still not what others see when they look at us. But can be why we look good in the mirror before we leave the house, then take a selfie in the car and feel like an old troll 🧌 oogabooga!
📸 Pro camera is where we get as close to our true selves as possible. If you’ve got a good photographer with a good lens and flash (wink wink, it’s me, hi!), you’re going to get back photos that show the most proportionate and lifelike version of yourself.
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Below are two photos taken within an hour of each other. Same makeup. Same hair. Same spot in my room. Both with flash on. Both with my lighted mirror on in front of me. Neither edited, both raw files.
The photo on the left was taken in portrait mode with flash on my iPhone 15 pro. Sure it’s a decent picture. I might have posted it online after some color correction and lighting work. But my first thoughts were “is my forehead really that tall?” and “I didn’t know I was so orange” (I don’t spray tan anymore so why am I pulling so warm?!)
The photo on the right was taken with my trusty Canon cam with fancy lens and digital flash. Sure it shows more imperfections (spots, pores, wrinkles) BUT that’s because it’s such great quality and has depth and life. My forehead looks shorter, my whole face looks less “pinched,” and I don’t look like a tangerine! 🍊 woohoo!
So next time you get photos back and think that it couldn’t possibly be you, THINK AGAIN! We are just so used to seeing ourselves through a warped phone lens that we have totally distorted visuals of ourselves. As long as you keep getting pictures taken by me, I promise to help boost your confidence because you ARE that beautiful! 
All my love,
Nikki Leigh Photography 💛