07/15/2026
It’s been 10 years since I’ve taken a photograph with my Nanna, the last time we took family photos together was at my wedding, when my poppy was still alive.
I wasn’t missing the opportunity this time. I wasn’t making excuses or not finding time because this is important. Remembering her. My kids remembering her. It wasn’t anything crazy, we kept it simple, in my backyard with a quick transfer out of her wheelchair into the rocking chair that I’ve spent 9 years rocking my kids in.
They may not get the version of crazy driving, late night forbidden snacks on poppy’s couch, the sneaky shopping trips or the version of her when poppy was alive but they get her laugh, her spark & the memories of her being here. When we look back on these photos, I will see the woman who was my hero as a child - quite literally my favorite person. My kids will see the older version, the one that laughed with them, that stole bites of their food, snuggled them on her chair & made them feel important, even when she got confused & called them wrong names.
Thank you to everyone who gave me patience while I spent the last 2.5 weeks being my Nanna’s caregiver & spending time with her. We never know if it’ll be her last visit & it’s not something I take lightly, so thank you 💛
Here’s your friendly reminder: it’s important to remember the generations before you. To preserve their memory within you & your kids. One day, all my kids & I will have left, are these photos & the impact she left 💛