16/09/2026
To my future husband ❤️
You are the kind of man who calls me even when you only have a little time left, even when you’re already out of breath, because somehow, even a few minutes with me are still worth making time for.
You listen to my nonsense stories, my endless drama, my random thoughts, and even the things that probably make absolutely no sense. 😂 You may get annoyed with me sometimes, but somehow, you still want to be annoyed by me . 😂. And I think there’s something incredibly beautiful about being loved by someone who chooses to stay even when I’m being a little too much.
You are the kind of man who can look at your phone and say, “You’ve sent me more than 100 reels. I’m a little full now. 😂 I can’t watch them because I’m working, but I’ll watch them when I have time.”
And somehow, you’ll still tell me, “You can send more.” 😂❤️
Because you know that those silly reels are just another little way I’m trying to share my world with you.
You are the man I can call about anything—when something is wrong, when I need advice, when I’m happy, when I’m crying, or when I simply want to ask you in the middle of your work, “Tell me 20 reasons that you like about me.” And when you have the time, you’ll still answer me. ❤️
You are a man who knows that being strong doesn’t mean you have to hide your feelings. You allow yourself to be vulnerable, to be seen, to be heard, and to be loved too.
You lead, but you also listen.
You correct me when I need it, accept correction when you need it, and take time to reflect. You are the kind of man who can ask, “Tell me how I can love you better,” instead of simply assuming that you already know everything about me.
You are the man I can be completely silly and naughty with. 😂 The man I can cry with, laugh with, dream with, and grow with.
The man I can ask, “If I were a frog, would you still love me?” 🐸😂 And you wouldn’t just say yes—you’d probably make an AI picture of us as frogs just to make me laugh.
You are a man who makes me feel safe enough to be myself.
A man who supports my dreams instead of asking me to abandon them. A man who wants to see me become everything I’m meant to become, while building a future together.
A man with a provider’s heart and mindset—not because love is measured by what you can give materially, but because you think about tomorrow, you sacrifice today when necessary, and you care about the life we are building together.
You are the man I can count on.
The man who is there when I mess up.
The man who can cook for me simply because he wants to take care of me. ❤️
The man who is my helpmate, not just my roommate.
The man who doesn’t simply share a house with me, but shares the responsibilities, the dreams, the struggles, the laughter, and the beautiful chaos of everyday life.
And I love the way you share your world with me.
You send me sunsets because you know I’d want to see them.
You send me the views you’re looking at, the places you’re in, and the little moments you experience throughout your day.
You let me into your world—not only through the big things, but through the smallest details.
You tell me about your day. You update me. You send voice messages and videos. You fill my WhatsApp gallery with pieces of your life, and without even realizing it, you’re creating memories I’ll treasure.
And you didn’t just let me into your world—you opened the door to your family too.
You make sure they know me . You make space for me in the people and relationships that matter to you. And even more beautifully, you make sure they know my daughters too.
That means more to me than you may ever realize.
Because loving me means understanding that my daughters are a part of my heart and my life.
You are not simply a man who wants to marry a woman who already has children. You are a man who wants to become a real father—not just a stepfather.
A man who wants to show up.
A man who wants to love them, guide them, protect them, support them, laugh with them, teach them, and be there as they grow.
A man who doesn't see them as something that comes with me, but as little people who can have a place in his heart too. ❤️
And I love that you want to make sure your family knows about them—that they know who they are and that they are part of the life you are building with me.
You are not just letting me into your world.
You are making room for us in your world.
Because sometimes love isn't just about choosing one person.
It's about choosing the family and the future you want to build together. ❤️
And you are also the kind of man who wants to be a husband, not simply a man who needs a wife.
There is a difference.
You don't just want someone beside you to fill the role of “wife.” You want a partner. A best friend. A helpmate. Someone whose dreams matter to you, whose voice you want to hear, whose heart you want to understand, and whose life you want to build alongside your own.
You want a marriage where we both give, both grow, both learn, both carry the weight when life becomes difficult, and both celebrate when life becomes beautiful.
Because sometimes love isn’t found in the grand gestures.
Sometimes it’s in a phone call when you’re already exhausted.
A random picture of the sunset.
A silly video.
A little update about your day.
A meal you cooked.
A hundred reels waiting in your inbox. 😂
A question asking how you can love me better.
A hand reaching for mine when I’m overwhelmed.
A laugh and reflection after an argument.
A random armpit photos
A how are you feeling message
A random call
A “yes” when I ask if you’d still love me if I were a frog. 🐸❤️
It’s in the little things that quietly say, “I want you to be part of my world.”
And that is what makes you so special to me.
You may not have every treasure in this world, but you have a heart that makes me feel like I have been given the world.
You are imperfect. So am I.
You can be stubborn, emotional, annoying, and difficult sometimes. And so can I. 😂
But through all of our imperfections, I hope we continue choosing each other.
I hope we continue learning how to love each other better.
I hope we continue laughing until our stomachs hurt, crying when life gets heavy, forgiving when we make mistakes, and growing into better versions of ourselves together.
And one day, when I look back at all these little moments—the calls, the sunsets, the silly pictures, the reels, the nonsense conversations, the difficult days, the laughter, the dreams, and the family we built—I hope I can smile and say:
“This is the man I chose to build my life with.” ❤️
My future husband.
My best friend.
My helpmate.
My safe place.
The man who chose not only me, but my daughters too.
The man who wants to be their father by love and by choice.
The man who wants to be my husband—not simply because he needs a wife, but because he wants me as his partner in life.
My partner in all the beautiful chaos that life will bring.
And if you ever wonder why I love you…
Maybe it isn’t just because of one big thing you do.
It’s because of all the little things.
It’s because you let me be part of your world, while making me feel that you want to be part of mine.
Martijn Joosse ❤️
It’s because you make room for me, my dreams, my daughters, and the life we hope to build together.
And that, to me, is love. ❤️
And of course it's a YES , it's always a YES ❤️
