26/10/2026
Trans people deserve love. They deserve safety. They deserve to exist as themselves without having to fight for the right to do so.
That is why I created Married to Myself.
I had the privilege of bringing this project to life at Highbury Hall with the incredible Seana Momsen. A shoot built around love, identity, visibility and the right to be unapologetically yourself.
I grew up q***r in an environment where being different could mean rejection, judgement, hatred and threats. I know what it feels like to have parts of who you are treated as something wrong. I also know my experience is not the same as that of a trans person, and I will never claim it is.
But I cannot watch trans people being made to feel unsafe, unwelcome or undeserving of the same rights, dignity and love as everyone else and do nothing.
I'm a photographer. I tell stories through images. So I wanted to create something beautiful, bold, colourful and full of hope. Not to pretend the world is always beautiful, but to remind people what is worth fighting for.
I want trans people to see these images and know they are not alone. I want them to feel seen, celebrated and loved. And I want anyone who has ever been made to feel that who they are is wrong to know that they deserve a life where they can exist freely, without fear.
I can't change the world with a photoshoot. But I can use my work, my platform and my voice to stand alongside people who deserve to know that others are standing with them.
If even one person feels a little less alone because of this project, it will have meant everything to me.
This is Married to Myself. 🩷🩵
Photographer & Creative Director Wilder Photography
Hair
Wig Plot Twist Wigs ✨
Venue Sam Forth
Florals Maddison Rocks Floral Alternative Wedding Florist
Model Seana Momsen
Dress Felicity Westmacott - Bespoke Wedding Dress Maker
Dress 2 Selkie ™
Content creator Alternative Award Winning Wedding Content || UK & abroad
Jackets by Niamh McColgan (née McCarthy)
Confetti Let's Confetti 🎉🎉🎉
Cake smuttercups
Shoes Steve Madden
Runner Beth Atton de Sá
Draping Draping fabrics Midlands UK | Nicola Bingham
Vintage China .wishes
