04/10/2026
I was with Ashley last night and it had me thinking about this.
These were my flowers.
I got married just outside of Owen Sound, and I chose dear friends of mine to be part of the day. To help bring the day together.
Ashley from made these.
I didn’t come to her with a plan.
I didn’t have a vision.
Just a feeling.
I knew I wanted colour.
Texture.
Nothing that felt too heavy or overdone.
That was about the extent of it.
And then I handed it over.
Trusted her to take that small, not-fully-formed idea
and turn it into something that would feel right when I was standing there, holding it.
I think about that now, from the other side.
How different it feels when you don’t have to manage every detail.
When you trust the people around you to take care of things in ways you don’t have the language for yet.
These photos weren’t taken by me.
I wasn’t working that day.
I was just there.
The way it should be, IMHO.
And I got to experience what that kind of trust actually feels like.