07/09/2026
Sadie Daniel Smith
29.08.2026 • 3.1kg • 51cm
1:27am, Saturday I woke to the most immense pressure in my pelvis. It almost felt like a sudden drop. I got up went to wee and climbed back into bed. But as soon as I lay down, the pressure came straight back. So I got back up and went to back the bathroom, that's when I noticed some pink-tinged fluid.
1:50am, I woke Craig and we called my midwife and doula. At this point, contractions hadn’t even started.
Naturally, my next thought was that I did not want to look like an ogre while giving birth. So I tied my hair up and put on a little makeup while Craig made us a hot drink and started filling the birth pool.
2:20am, at this point contractions started. I would sway and breathe through them, but I was still happily chatting, drinking my tea and doing my makeup.
2:37am, I called my dear friend and photographer, Saysha, who was coming to photograph the birth, thinking we still had some time.
Directly after that call, everything changed. The contractions suddenly ramped up. I went from breathing and swaying to deep, low roars. I know from my previous births that when I’m approaching transition, I vomit. Which happened at this point. Shortly afterwards, I suddenly felt like I desperately needed the toilet. I ran to the bathroom, trying to understand what my body was doing. An incredibly powerful contraction came over me. And with it came fear.
I started to declare the fear to be gone!
Pam, my doula, then came running in and realising very quickly that things were moving faster than any of us had anticipated. She got me onto the bed on my hands and knees, trying to slow things down and buy us a little more time. But my body had other plans. Another enormous contraction came and instinctively I reached down. There was a bulge. I could feel my baby coming. Pam told me to roll onto my side and shouted for Craig, who came running into the room- he had been letting our midwife onto the property. Another powerful contraction came. I felt Craig’s hands. In that moment, I felt complete freedom to let go.
My body completely took over, and I got to experience something I had prayed for — fetal ejection reflex. There was no conscious pushing, no pain. I just remember roaring her out.
Sadie was being delivered with her cord wrapped around her neck and Craig, completely on instinct, immediately flicked it from around her as my body birthed the rest of her.
At 2:52am, Craig delivered our daughter.
Sadie came out blue, but Nomz, our midwife, came running in with her incredible calming presence. “It’s okay. She’s fine. She’s okay.”
She took over until we heard that little squeak, then placed Sadie onto me.
Fifteen minutes earlier, I had been happily chatting on the phone.
Thirty-two minutes earlier, my contractions had only just begun.
There was no photographer in time.
There was no birth pool.
There wasn’t even a midwife in the room yet.
Just me, my doula, my husband, Jesus — and a little girl who had clearly decided she was coming whether the rest of us were ready or not 🤍
Thank you to my team:
Midwife: Nomz Phungela, from The Natural Childbirth Centre
Doula: Pam Willment, from Bump to Bundle (Pam has journeyed alongside me through all of my babies and breastfeeding journeys)
Photographer: Saysha Baker Photography