05/08/2026
‘Friendship is about finding someone who’s willing to keep meeting every new version of you. ‘
(Not my typical post but today is the start of the second part of big shake up in my life and I was reminiscing. Get a coffee, it’s a long read)
Back when I first moved to the UK, I rented a 3 bed flat with 4 others. I shared a room with a friend I didn’t know that well, it was all we could afford. We were broke, there was no other option and not willing to go back to SA. We lived in a dodgy part of town, think Trainspotting. I am sure we bumped into sick boy once. We had a little black and white TV, it’s all we could afford yet it brought us hours of entertainment. We would lounge on the couch on rainy afternoons in our PJ’s and find everything and nothing to laugh about.
We didn’t know what we were getting ourselves into during those early days. But we were in it together, all the highs and the lows, we faced together. I miss those days.
As I begin my next big adventure, today (in a few hours), I was reminded of what we started together 27 years ago (almost to the day). We met because of photography. Neither of us knew the significance. Now, both of us have changed (for the better), we grew together, even at my worst she is still my biggest champion. I long for those days on the couch but are proud we have come so far
A lasting Friendship isn’t built during the easy years, it’s built by surviving enough life together. And we have done that. We will continue to do that. Even though you aren’t joining me this time around, I will send you my moments and maybe when I am back we can pick a spot on the couch and laugh so hard our stomachs hurt, just like when we did all those years ago.
——— Chase the passion you love.
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