09/08/2026
Some people get good hair.
I got the ability to walk into a room and immediately know who's nervous, who's sizing everyone up, who is NOT having it e and who needs approximately 7 minutes šbefore they're ready to be a human being.
When I first started photography, every guide I read was about posing. Where to put their hands. How to angle their bodies. What to do with their feet. The whole shabang.
And nobody really talked about the actual human part. Because honestly, after doing this for years, I think that's like 93% of the job.
You have to read the room.
You have to know when someone needs direction, when they need a joke, when they need you to back off for a second, and when mom is about to lose her mind and you need to change the entire plan immediately
And now I'm trying to teach my girls the same thing I use at basically every session:
Read. The. Room.
They are, unfortunately, not as impressed by my wisdom as l am.
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