05/15/2026
Sending some notes back and fourth with friends this morning in preparation for our camping trip and the topic of fitness came up because we’re going to climb some fu***ng mountains this year both physically and metaphorically.Â
If insecurities show up for you in a group setting. If you silently compare yourself to the women around you here’s what I want I want you to know. Everytime you compare yourself, it’s a win to the patriarchy. Everytime you want to make yourself smaller, dimmer, quieter it’s a win to the patriarchy. And I want you to ask yourself this question:
How much longer am I going to sacrifice myself on the alter of the patriarchy? How much longer am I going to mold myself to fit into a beauty standard that was set by men who are attracted to children?
Can I answer it for you? Not a fu***ng minute longer.Â
Maybe this newfound love for being in nature and bringing women together for a camping experience is a collective f**k you to all that. Maybe it’s time to shed the aesthetics shoved down our throat and embrace gross girl season. Give me your smelly, messy, hairy, soft, strong, big, loud body. Shove that down your throat and scream f**k you on top of a mountain.
Happy Friday, gross girls alike. I love ya the way you are.