05/19/2025
A huge part of being a wedding and elopement photographer is being able to chat with not only your couple easily, but also their guests, family, and especially the parents!
Having those interpersonal skills will ease everyone overall — the first impression really sets the tone for the day. Being timid and shy usually leads to the conclusion that you’re not very confident in yourself, and if you aren’t, how can others be? Throughout the day, we want the couple and any of their attendees to feel sure and safe that you know what you’re doing and that all they need to do is follow your lead.
I mainly coordinated with the bride’s mom leading up to the day, so finally meeting her in person was exciting for us both. Over the years, talking with the parents actually has become one of my favorite ways to start the day.
It’s easy to come off as the expert while hiding behind a screen through sending emails, it’s a whole other thing to actually be that cool and confident business person in real life. While having photography skills is integral to this job, so is being personable!
Photography is a very social job, and having strong social and interpersonal skills will set you up for even further success ✨