05/13/2026
I’m still fumbling moments, missing key shots, & 9/10 trying not to break something!
Mostly I’ve noticed this happens when everything is speeding up not slowing down!
But here is what creating for others has help me see:
Most of what i see in you is the unseen moments of life -it’s always trends towards helping you connect inward vs out
Fumbles are ment to be there - not to make a perfect moment but to make the imperfect moment perfect!
Fumbles connect us all - it’s awkward, embarrassing, totally vulnerable when i mess up on the spot - I try to own it, get the next one - I still struggle with beating myself up
I can’t say I’ve done it if i haven’t tired - there are no guarantees- but the truth it’s the only guarantee is NO because i never entered the realm of doing!
I can’t direct key moments of anyone’s life - it’s out of my control, but I can help you find focus in a moment!
The fact is I fumble at least one thing every client - bad text, forget a piece of equipment, not having every prop, right location, to many wrinkled shirts!
Each one is a place to learn and try to get it right, for the next one, it also keeps it human and I’ve come to love messing up!
Because when I mess up openly it shatters untold pressures of perfection & then you and I start having really honest creative energy!
What’s something you fumble but still make it work?
