10/16/2026
A man stopped his car in a parking lot yesterday while I was hauling my very unsexy green wagon full of bags. He stopped just to tell me that I looked hot.
In the most unsexy situation.
I did not expect it. I did not ask for it. I did not even look at the guy.
And I want to tell you that this happens to me every single day, sometimes multiple times a day.
I also get feedback from people who happen to spend time with me that they notice how men stare at me.
And I don’t even pay attention anymore. I don’t even notice it because it’s become part of my everyday life.
That is what being a dark feminine woman means.
You exude a magnetic, mysterious presence that other people cannot resist.
Because you are so fully owning who you are, and you’re so authentically YOU that there’s nothing to perform and no one to please.
You just BE.
You walk through a parking lot, hauling your five bags in a green wagon, and men still stop their cars to tell you that you look hot.