03/27/2026
LATOYA ADAMS ON ADVOCACY
LaToya and I met the way most photographers and doulas meet - face-to-face during the labor of a mutual client. My first impression of LaToya was that she was very quiet and calm. She had a way just moving through the room that put you at ease. LaToya has been helping mothers bring their children into the world for 15 years! I asked her what inspired her to this line of work, and I think her response is so important to share because not every birthing experience is satisfying and not every birth goes according to plan:
"My birth stories were not what I wished for, so I wanted to make sure that didn't happen to anyone else. Our first child was delivered at home because they said I wouldn't give birth any time soon. Eight hours later, we had a baby girl. Our son was even more dramatic. His heart rate kept going down during contractions so the OB on call made the decision for an emergency c-section. That did not go as planned. I bled out and coded. I had to have a blood transfusion and five extra days in the hospital. Neither of those experiences should have happened or be the norm. That is my why."
She goes on, "I am a birth worker that supports the mom and spouse by advocating for them when they can't advocate for themselves." And that truly is where it begins to preventing scenarios like LaToya's birthing experiences from happening. "Advocating starts before we even get to delivery day. We start with a birth plan. The birth plan is where the parents tell me the things they want and don't want in the delivery room from epidural to no epidural, to breastfeeding or not and making the decision if they want Pitocin or not."
What about when things don't go according to plan? How are doulas able to advocate for their birth clients in those situations? "You pivot. We always have the conversation of 'What if?' Also, any changes always grant a conversation. I don't make the decisions for them and neither do the medical team. They share the options and then Mom and Spouse make the decision. I make sure the parents' power is not taken away from them."
Something I asked LaToya was about the many birthing philosophies out there, I wanted to know what she holds to be important respecting this and what she finds most meaningful in her work as a doula, "The woman's body is made to do this thing called birth. Let the body do what it will do. Also, the baby knows what to do too. They will present themselves when they are ready. Getting to work with families from all walks of life. Teaching families how to advocate for themselves. To be a part of the wonderful world of birth. To see a little human take their first breath is just amazing in my mind."
LaToya was such a pleasure to work with - she really kept the space calm and reassuring. Her voice was mellow and she was able to help our client digest the options that lay in front of her and decide for herself the direction she wanted to go with her birth. If you're interested in working with LaToya, you can reach out to her via her Instagram page at the following link:
https://www.instagram.com/sweetlifedoula365