08/03/2021
This weekend I got to be fully a wedding guest - with no other responsibilities - for the first time in over 5 years. Four days on Bainbridge Island and I can’t even begin to describe how incredibly special it was.
Not because of the deep, and long-standing relationship I had with the couple… in fact, my first time meeting Spencer and Margo was at their rehearsal dinner. If you’re interested in that story, you’ll have to stick around or ask me in person.
The wedding was special because even though I had met the couple approximately 24 seconds before spending the majority of the week in their home & with their family, I had the opportunity to show up for them the way I hope to show up for all of my couples.
You see, being a wedding guest and being a wedding vendor are very similar things when done correctly. The day, the weekend, the event, is about connecting. About serving. About honoring and respecting. About showing up in whatever way is needed in that specific moment.
It doesn’t matter if you have known someone for twelve years, or twelve minutes. It doesn’t matter if you are photographing their family, or plugging in the karaoke machine at the after party. When we meet someone for the the first time, it is an opportunity to create genuine connection. When you notice someone could use a glass of water but doesn’t want to leave the dance floor, it is an opportunity to serve. When you are asked to be a guest at any special occasion in someone’s life, it is an opportunity to honor them. When someone invites you into their home, it is an opportunity to show your respect.
So tell me friend, how do you make sure to show up, connect, serve, honor, and respect the people in your life? What’s one of your favorite ways someone has done the same for you?