05/16/2026
This past December I fully entered a brand new era of my photography career where almost everything is centered around finding a way seriously monetize all aspects of my photography. So that I can build a homestead and financial solid empire to eventually leave to my three nieces. I hope to be able to leave it to my own biological children along with my nieces. That demands that I first meet a woman I believe is fit to marry and build an empire with.
But I've spent the past 20 years building the foundation of this empire with my family and a handful of close friends.
While all of the single women I do meet either prove to be too shallow, too young, not genuine, intimidated by the fact that I'm a n**e portrait photographer who spends most of my time surrounded by naked women, or they were just looking for a random hookup.
I'm looking for my empress, who will stand with me as I stand with her to build an incredible and healthy family.
I'm not looking for random hookups, I'm not interested in immature high school aged dating games, and a large part of my JOB as a n**e portrait photographer is helping both men and women to elevate their own levels of confidence.
So the woman I marry at minimum needs to be someone who is confident in herself and wants to create a nuclear family, while putting in the work to build the life of OUR dreams.
My life might genuinely revolve around my photography.
But my family is equally as important and my half of the dreams means my Empress and I will each have our own percheron, along with land fit for horse back riding.
But if I end up never meeting my future wife, the rest of my goals will still be reached eventually and all of the people who believed in me enough to help me peice it all together will become the greatest beneficiaries of it after my three nieces.
If I'm still single after reaching the age of 40 maybe I'll consider the life of bachelor. But for now, I would rather let my balls turn blue and fall off before wasting my time with another woman who's just looking for a random hookup or something casual.