08/20/2026
This is a theme Iāve felt convicted to share in recent months.
God is across all time and space, but the only place we encounter Him is in the present. If we get so consumed in āthe futureā or in what we feel we are ālackingā at any stage of our vocation, its my personal belief we risk ending up so distracted (or sulking in our pain) that we forget to intentionally show up and love the people around us today. The people you encounter today are in your life FOR this season. They need you exactly as you are with your wounds, your longings, and all.
All the spiritual reading and books Iāve read lately point to a similar theme. We think of Godās plan in the big picture of our lives. When really we cooperate with that plan in the small, ordinary, daily ways. Every problem you encounter today that needs to be solved, every person who crosses your path, every circumstance youāre in⦠THAT is Godās plan for you.
So in that, you do have everything you need for your holiness. Simply in how you respond to Godās invitations today.
And well, for those who like us who have had long seasons of longing for either their first child or a bigger family, I also want to share a place Iāve found comfort in recent years. The catechism talks about couples who havenāt been able to have children of their own as marriages that are still able to have a ālife full of meaning [ā¦] and can radiate a fruitfulness of charity, of hospitality, and of sacrifice.ā
Reading that, I hear a sense of direction for all of us, in every vocation, and a place to direct our efforts in every stage of our vocation: Charity. Hospitality. Sacrifice.
My takeaway and encouragement to anyone reading who is wrestling with deep wounds or deep longings, would be to first bring those to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the pierced heart that is set ablaze with love for othersā¤ļøāš„ and discern how is God calling you to live out the virtues of charity, hospitality, and sacrifice in the exact season you are in?