05/07/2026
Vinny's Viewpoint: For what it's worth
As I was looking for a place where there's cherry blossom trees for my next photoshoot, I came across a photo on Facebook where I shot my first engagement shoot.
When I first started taking photos, I took my camera almost everywhere, at any event. family picnics, birthdays, hang outs, hu plig, etc. It's just fun to capture expressions and moments of friends and family to me. Whether it's serious moment or not, I love going back during post editing and analyzing all the people in the photos from the events.
One day, my buddy Xiong asked me if I could take their engagement photos, and that he will pay me for my service. That was a big deal. I took photo for them a few times at their events but this time it was a real service. I thought about turning it into something more than just a hobby, but I was also the guy that hesitated on big decisions. I didn't know where my work stand compared to others. What was my based cost? Do I give them all the photos, edited? He's a buddy so I shouldn't charge too much, right?
Xiong, being the good friend and great business owner, he is, he gave me some advice along the lines of "Set the price you want. Base it off of what you think it's worth. Be honest with yourself. If they like your work, and think it's worth it, they'll respect your price." I'm sure it was better worded, but this was a while ago. Xiong has always been supportive to friends and other business owners with sound advice.
That day, at this location, we arrived right before golden hour. Got a few shots at the bridge, walking while they held hands, face close up, her hands on his chest, him facing one way, while she rested her head on his shoulder, arms around him showing the ring. On the field, we got a few shots from sitting on the grass, wide angle, front facing. A shot of both of their foreheads touching while eyes are closed, sun setting in the background. Another shot of a blurred background, eyes drawing you from there face, down the arms, to him holding her hand up, presenting the ring on her finger. A lot of great photos. This session is still one of my favorite sessions I've done.
My biggest challenge I had during this time was having my settings on my camera and my strobe set properly for the best lighting. I tried this a few times in the beginning, and it just didn't go as planned. At the time, my shutter speed was still way too low, which made each photo even brighter when using the strobe light. Later on, during blue hour, I tried one more time with different settings and by luck, I had the settings just right. Because so, we had to take a few more. Even though we went past our set time.
This session taught me a lot. Trying out poses, settings on camera and strobes, being professional during a session, even if it's with friends and trusting your worth and value. That one time, that one advice, that one more try, can push you into the direction you need to go.
To grow, be around people that not only support you but also challenge you to be better. Take the chance and try it.
Thanks again to Xiong and Nancy for always supporting me.