12/03/2025
In the Town Square Photo Group in Facebook/Meta for the month of December, the theme is "D".
“ D “ – Domestic Abuse.\
Not the most glamorous topic of discussion at any time. And the real images are never gorgeous award winners. It is a matter that does have its support and consequences for its actions.
I write out of frustration today from contact of a longtime female acquaintance this afternoon, that has for some time been the victim/recipient of verbal/emotional abuse/conduct from her adult child.
I have offered some thoughts/advice based on experience from my previous and continuous employment in the law enforcement field. Upon reading the lady’s comments, deeply saddened me beyond what many may not think or expect could affect me. Frustration with a flicker of anger in the domestic situation arose. And ask ‘WHY’?
As previously stated to the lady, that I am and always will be available to her whenever assistance is needed. That includes her removal from the residence and transportation to a safe place, either in the county of residence or in my residence. And most of all, if harmed, to call the authorities.
Every ‘victim’ needs support. Whether that is from family, friends, or government agency.
The situation needs to end this vicious cycle, regardless how frequent or not the action does arise.
It is one thing to discuss or argue. But, to intimidate and/or threaten, now can become a criminal action if it can be reported and Law Enforcement becomes involved progressing through the judicial system.
How many news reports does it take or will it take on that of a missing person, only to be discovered as a fatal victim of domestic abuse/violence?
Of course I am puzzled, that my acquaintance is reluctant to accept the aid to remove herself.
Let’s have a short discussion on DV.
What are the types: physical, sexual, economic, emotional, psychological, and cultural/identify abuse.
Therefore, what is domestic abuse? Domestic abuse is a pattern of behavior used by one person in a relationship to control the other person. It is caused by one person’s belief that he/she has the right to control the other party.