10/06/2026
Idk who needs to hear this; but my love, STOP apologizing on your wedding day!
You need your shoes loosened or tightened? Done!
You have a photo idea (or ten)? Great, let’s effing go!
You need some space from a relative or guest? I got it!
The thing is, yes there’s a timeline, yes there’s a genuine real need for everything to be “perfect”. But the reality is this is your wedding day. If you genuinely have a need or idea, that’s not being a “bridezilla” or “too much”. You are not a villain, you are getting married 💕
So stop apologizing. Trust your vendors and creative team enough that you feel comfortable to share an idea or express a need so you can truly immerse yourself in your day!
Signed, a photographer who is tired of brides being villainized!