08/27/2026
What’s the hardest part about getting your gallery back?
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Plot twist, I’m the subject of these photos! As someone who sends people massive galleries of photos, I don’t often get the other side of the experience. I remember the first time I got a gallery back of myself after getting my business going. It was not easy. We’re used to photos being in a controlled environment, from one angle, smiling at the camera. Suddenly you have all these photos of you from every angle, some you may have never seen yourself from.
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Getting your gallery back should be a highlight of the experience and suddenly, you’re overwhelmed with insecurities. They seem to stare at you even if you love most of the photos. You want to see the cute moment but instead, you’re looking at something you’ve always struggled with.
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So what do we do? First, I think we need to be more open about it. I’ve never heard someone talk about the overwhelm of seeing such a giant gallery of yourself during so many candid moments. I think even knowing it’s coming can help you so much with that first gallery experience. For my clients, they get a full page about it in their elopement guide and a section in their final gallery email letting them know about the hide photo feature.
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If you’re especially concerned about your body image in your photos, look at your gallery first focusing on your partner. Find a favorite photo of them in the mix. This will help you avoid fixating on little things you see in yourself.
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Keep in mind, I’ve hand combed through these images to pick the best. When I photographed you, I saw two happy people having an amazing day. When your partner looked at you that day, they saw their favorite person.
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Big thank you to Oregon Elopement Photographer for snapping these for us!
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Oregon Coast
Oregon elopement photographer