01/03/2020
I posted this to Instagram, but it's really important to me, so I'm posting it here too....
I want to talk about wedding photography for a minute.
When you choose me to document your wedding day I want you to know that I am there for you. I will do everything I can to support and honor you. I know that you have put your trust in me, and I don’t take that lightly.
I will always go the extra mile, and I will always respect your wishes.
When Lynn and Ron told me (at the last minute) that they wanted to say their vows by candlelight I knew it would be a challenge to photograph. The ceremony was inside, in a small space, at 4:00pm on a winter day when the sun would set at 4:25. (They decided to turn on a small lamp so they could see the vows they had written down but other than that there was very little light)
I had a moment of panic, but then I took a deep breath and said to myself “it’s not about you, it’s always about them, and don’t you forget that.”
So, when they looked at me and asked if it was ok, I said “of course it is, whatever you want, I’ve got you.”
Social media is a strange thing. It can trick us into thinking that our main objective is to get likes and followers. That somehow we aren’t enough if we don’t get a feature or a “share”. That is not my focus, and it never will be. You are. My clients = my friends.
As I head into 2020 excited about the weddings I’ve already booked, and the ones I’m doing this 🤞🏻for, I am more focused and more determined to be the very best I can be. As a person, photographer, friend, mother, wife, ally...all of it. ❤️