08/31/2026
Turns out, being a photographer does NOT make you the perfect photography client.
We recently had our own family photos taken with Kristel, and apparently I needed a few reminders of my own. 😂
I tell clients to try on their outfits ahead of time. Sit down in them. Move around. Make sure everything actually works.
Guess who showed up with a top that was too long and shorts that suddenly felt WAY too short when I sat down? 🙋♀️
Thankfully, I had also brought a fluffy skirt that felt a little dressier and a little less “me.” I almost wasn't sure about it—and then most of my favorite photographs ended up being the ones where I'm wearing it.
I was also reminded that walking naturally through sand while simultaneously looking cute is significantly harder than I've been making it look from behind the camera!
And Jason had gum in his mouth. Again. I swear this is at least the third photoshoot where I've had to photoshop gum out of this man's mouth. 😂
But maybe the biggest reminder was this:
None of that mattered.
When I look through our photographs, I'm not looking for the one where every hair is perfectly in place or all three of us are looking at the camera.
I'm looking for the way Kai still fits in our arms. The way we laugh together. The hugs and kisses and snuggles. What it felt like to be together on the shores of Lake Michigan, a place we've come to love, in this particular season of our lives.
Someday these photographs are going to look very different. He's eventually going to be taller than me. And this version of our family will exist only in our memories and photographs.
So yes, plan the outfits. Take the hair tie off your wrist. For the love of photoshop, spit out your gum.
But then let the rest go.
Love on your people. Trust your photographer. And actually enjoy being together.
That's the part you're really going to want to remember. ❤️