05/13/2026
Oye! It has been a good week, but chaotic and rough too. Tulip Time, parades, birthdays... and on my little girl's birthday she got her front two teeth knocked out (thankfully baby teeth). And then my son had his tonsils removed!
I have to say this. I was 33 when I had my first child. I lived 33 years without realizing the beauty of this incredible mom community. The love we have for our children and for each other. The community we find in the loss of self during the early years, and again as our kids grow into their independence. The community in the joys and the celebrations too.
When E lost her teeth, no less than 5 of her friends' moms reached out to check on us during Tulip Time. And when W had his surgery, the moms in his class showed up with so much love, support, and encouragement for everything this season is bringing.
Guys. Over the years, I have loved you, watched you, and celebrated you and our kids as we drive from one season into the next. I had no idea we could love this hard, be driven this crazy, and yet when I feel lost, all I have to do is reach out to a fellow mama, friend or not, and compassion and companionship show up, often with a meal, flowers, a coffee date, a playdate, or more.
So, a few days after Mother's Day, I want to shout you all out. Thank you for loving so hard and so well, even when we are losing our minds. Thank you for your transparency, your love, and this community. Thank you for loving my kids enough to check in, support them, and cheer them on, too.
And thank you for loving me so well, too. I am not always consistent in responding as I chase this dream of photography and intentional time with my family, but know that my heart's desire is connection and community. So please reach out, invite me to coffee, a walk, or a playdate. I love it all and appreciate each of you more than you will ever know.