11/11/2021
Today, I want to talk about the importance of mentoring. The youth mentoring program was inaugurated in 2002 in America, and 25,000 organizations have participated in this program.
Certain people (events) helped me become who I am today, and I want to thank them this month.
Here it goes:
In Japan, I used to commute to the adjacent state for my dental appointment since I was 7 years old. My mom accompanied me at first, but by the time I was 9, I hopped on a train by myself, saw my uncle and came home by Sunday evening.
One day, I met a guy on a train ride on my way home. I think he was in his fifties and traveling with his co-workers from Kyushu, which is 900 miles away from my hometown. He was a JH teacher and happened to sit next to me!
I tried my hardest to put on my best behavior possible, but he must have seen right through me: He was cracking up whenever we had conversations.
The only thing I remembered was to dashing out from the train when it came to a brief stop because I saw my mom at a platform. I left my bag in my seat, so he had to come out to hand it to me and greet my mom. We ended up exchanging addresses so we could become pen pals.
This mentor had a mission, and he was very consistent about it: changing my horizon to shift for the world. I received his letter every month: this sensei must have spent hours creating these visually packed letters for me. He even told me that he would take me to Brazil, the furthest country from Japan if accepted to any universities where he lived. He even begged my parents to send me to a university. Who's my parent here?!?!? After that, every summer, I received a bunch of textbooks from him hinting that I needed to study diligently. Great.
He gave me many gifts, but this tea bowl and its tea container were the last gifts he gave me when I visited his house in Kyusyu, and sadly it was the last time I saw him and his wife. I wasn't sure about the color at first, but now I understand why he said to me, "I got these for you because I thought they would look good on you, Yuki-san. " I'm forever thankful for him.
I still haven't visited Brazil yet, but it's one of my bucket lists.