01/28/2026
I was excited to come and show you some new things I’ve been working on this year after taking a long break last year to help my kids get settled in a new place.
But after posting a slide about political violence followed by a jacket that I loved on the next slide- I really couldn’t stomach the dissonance of flip-flopping between terror and joy.
I’m a centrist (I guess that’s my label) and I hold a consistent life ethic. When people d!e, I don’t care where your beliefs fall. I mourn your life. Largely, this is because I know you can’t keep de@th in a box. It can’t be confined to the womb or prisoners or immigrants or LGBT people or conservatives orpeople who believe differently or look differently than you. Once you strip someone’s rights, you strip all our rights.
When I coach small businesses- we always start with your life priorities, before we move to your business priorities and visual goals. When I looked at mine in the last week- God, family, then my art and business, and held it up against the images and videos I’ve consumed just in this week alone- I couldn’t help but notice what a sanitized version of Christianity I’ve been blessed to enjoy.
Lent is coming, and with it will come many reflections of where we place ourselves at the foot of the cross. But in 2026- where would I have actually been? Standing in the living room in my pajamas watching the footage from multiple angles? On the toilet? In my bed? On vacation? Packing lunches? Would the crucifixion be my 5 minute screen break while I was escaping my kids?
I can look at my life now and say without much doubt- yes, it would have been. More than likely I would have been home digesting the event through the lens of commentary and cell phone angles. I don’t know if I’m ok with that. I’m not ok with that. I don’t know what to do about it yet, but I’m not ok with it.
Some businesses will choose to continue to post as usual and I understand that and I don’t judge it. I don’t have any big platform where people are looking for my response. Of course I have opinions, but this has never felt like the right place for me to share them…or maybe I genuinely am not brave enough. (Cont in comments)