06/23/2026
After twenty years of photographing weddings, I’ve noticed something.
The things couples spend the most time worrying about before the wedding are almost never the things they remember afterward.
Things I have never heard anyone say after their wedding:
• “I wish we had spent more time choosing napkins.”
• “The seating chart should have consumed even more of my emotional energy.”
• “That one pimple completely ruined the experience.”
• “The weather was 73 degrees instead of 75.”
• “Everything was perfect and therefore memorable.”
What people do remember:
Who was there.
Who made them laugh.
Who made them cry.
The people who traveled to celebrate with them.
The moments they didn’t see coming.
How it all felt.
The rest, as Nell Crain would say, is just confetti.