09/09/2025
On April 15, 2025, I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer.
Even typing those words still feels surreal. Thank God it was caught early, but the past 5 months have been some of the hardest of my life. Chemo brought me to my knees. There were days I couldn’t get out of bed. And wishing I could just feel “normal” again.
As a business owner, I struggled with how much to share. Weddings are about joy, and the last thing I wanted was for anyone to think about their photographer battling cancer. But cancer touched every part of my business. It slowed down my response times, stretched out my turnaround times, and changed the way I showed up. Telling my couples was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but their patience, kindness, and support carried me through when I didn’t think I could keep going. To every client who has checked in, extended grace, or simply trusted me in this season: you have no idea how much you’ve held me up!!!! 💕
I had surgery to remove the tumor. The surgery went super well and I am officially TUMOR FREE 🙏🏽 There are still a few more rounds of chemo ahead, but I know by the end of 2025 I will be cancer free.
This journey has forced me to lean on others in ways I never imagined. There were weddings I couldn’t physically attend, and I cried over that too. But my talented photo friends stepped in with so much love and skill. Hearing couples rave about them, knowing they were cared for with the same heart I would bring myself, gave me peace. I am endlessly proud of this little village 🥹
Owning a business while walking through something like this has been terrifying and humbling. It’s reshaped the way I see my future. I’ve realized I can’t do it all and I don’t have to!
I share this because behind every beautiful IG post you see here, there is real life. Life that is fragile, unpredictable, and unbearably hard. And yet, I have never been more grateful for my family, my friends, my photo community, and my clients.
To my incredible surgeon Dr. Hartendorp and AMAZING nurses Jenna, Cassidy & Dean, thank you for taking care of me ❤️🩹
I’ll be back to shooting in October, I’m so ready to get back to doing what I love!!!
Thalia 🤍