02/14/2026
In February 2019, and I went to Death Valley National Park. It was my first time there. It was while we were there that she received the initial results from tests saying she had stage 4 pancreatic cancer. A bit of irony to find refuge in such a beautiful place, and also find out you’re dying. The next three months of taking care of her before watching her take her last breath went in a blink of an eye. If you have someone significant in your life, don’t just recognize that love and appreciation on the one day that society tells us too, do it everyday. You don’t know when the day will come that they are gone. It could be ten years from now, three months, or even tomorrow.
I hope you all have an incredible Valentines Day whether you have someone to share it with, or are like me spending it alone remembering the love I once got to share with an incredible human being.