04/22/2022
From Gavin's Pen and Camera
Patience
My Dad and I spent countless hours fishing. Rivers, lakes and ocean coastlines, both sandy and rocky coastlines. I loved every single moment. He taught me so much as we fished.
One day, early on, I asked him about what it takes to be a good fisherman.
He replied with one word.
"Patience."
After a pause, he went on.
"Son, some days you can bait your hook and cast your line and, bang. You catch one. No sooner than you bait your hook and cast, bang, another. Those days are a blessing, son. Now, on other days you can do the same but you could write a novel between bites."
So true were those words but my love of fishing has never wavered.
I learned to be patient during those quieter days of fishing. I would listen to the waves, the seagulls, the wind in the trees and my Dad as he cussed when a fish got off.
"Patience, Dad." I'd say, smiling.
"Yeah, I know." He'd reply.
I don't think I could have written a novel between bites but poetry and short stories, yes and there were many composed on those slow days at a beach or a stunning stretch of wilderness riverbank. Sometimes, I would draw... not that well. I would sketch birds, fish, fishing flies, the trees and whatever else took my eye. It was a good way to tame my patience..
Dad would say, "Son, you're getting pretty good at the patience thing. Better than me."
I'd reply, "I learned it from you."
He'd smile and his patience would kick in.
Yeah, we spent a lot of treasured time fishing together. Oh, how I wish we still could. Dad took the high trail three years ago. I miss him a lot. Fortunately, I have my wonderful memories of our times together and he gave me my greatest virtue... "patience."