06/02/2023
Part 1 of 3: Sasha, Sheena, and East Mifflin.
Do you remember that feeling as a child when you saw the neighbor kids playing outside, but you were too shy to ask to play with them, so you just caught glimpses of their fun through your windows?
That’s how I felt when Sheena + Sasha moved in across from me on east Mifflin in the spring of 2018. I would catch snippets of them having friends over for cookouts, laughter, and fires, and as a recovering shy kid, I hoped they’d wave me down one day to say hi and fulfill my shy kid dreams of becoming close friends with your neighbors.
On June 23, 2018, after photographing + ’s memorable wedding, I went back home to backup their photos and play approximately 8 minutes of guitar before meeting my friend Jenn at the Caribou for a post-work drink.
On our walk back home around bar time, one of the humans from across the street waved me and Jenn down. We joined Sasha in her front yard, and I instantly regretted not building up the courage to say hi sooner to my new neighbors.
After an hour of learning about each other, Sheena, dressed in her tighty whities, a white t shirt, and bed head, pushed open the screen door to the front of their house and and said,
“It’s after 3 am. Are you coming to bed?”
I forget how the night ended, but I remember eventually making the 12 second walk back home feeling excited to have met Sasha, and being intimidated by Sheena.
After a few small hangs, Sasha invited me for her backyard birthday celebration on July 4th where I got to partake in all of the fun I used to catch from my quick glimpses earlier that year.
Sheena’s intimidation factor began to wear off and my appreciation for her began to grow as I saw how deeply Sheena loved Sasha, and how much she cared for the people around her. Entering their backyard was like stepping through a portal to a community of humans I didn’t realize existed in Madison.
Sasha and Sheena were the q***rdos I hadn’t realized I had been missing in my first 30.5 years of life.