06/23/2026
What being someone's resource instead of their person actually feels like over time — you start anticipating the ask before the conversation even begins. You feel a specific kind of tired when their name appears on your screen. You notice you are relieved when they do not need anything. You begin measuring your own value to them in what you can provide rather than who you are. That feeling is information. Use it. 🌊 Comment "I KNOW THAT TIRED" if you have felt that specific exhaustion that comes from being needed but never actually cherished.