07/12/2022
Havana Girolamo | 02/12/2022 9:16 am-11:45 am šš¼š»
This has been a difficult post for Karl and I to write but we feel it is important and necessary for us to share and honor our daughter:
On February 12, 2022 my husband and I welcomed our beautiful baby girl, Havana. After 2 hours and 29 minutes of being on this Earth with us, she passed away in our arms. Our hearts are completely shattered. Our world stopped the second she left us. No parent should ever have to bury their child. The second we saw our Havana, we were hooked. It was love at first sight. The bond between a parent and a childā¦is like no other. Pure LOVE. She was our beautiful baby girl. Our daughter. Our Havana. She had my dark hair and Karlās blue eyes.
No doctor prepared us for this as it is a rare condition that is almost impossible to diagnose in an ultrasound. We thought we would be bringing our sweet girl home with us that day, to start our little family of 3. My heart breaks for our daughterā¦having to fight for her life the second she was born.
This intense grief is consuming. We still canāt believe Havana isnāt here. We canāt believe she isnāt in her crib right now. We canāt believe we wonāt get to kiss her every single day. Wonāt be able to know her first word. See her take her first steps. Hear her say, āI love you, Mamiā or āI love you, Daddy.ā Mourning the loss of our daughter and our future with her has been very difficult.
Karl and I are doing what we can to get through each day. This healing process is a journey that will be apart of us forever. Havana will forever be our first born. Our precious baby girl. Our daughter.
To our sweet Havana, Mami and Daddy miss you so much. Our love for you is a bond that can never be broken. We pray you heard us when you were still with us. When you were in your Mami and Daddyās arms and heard us tell you how much we love you. What we would give to hold you again. You are our angel in the stars watching over us. I know you hear us when Mami and Daddy visit you every day. We will meet you in the stars when itās our time. We love you more than anything, our precious little Havana.
