05/26/2026
When you think about doing a family photo session, what comes to mind?
Maybe it’s being told to stand in different places in a field while passersby give you sideways glances and your level of self-consciousness reaches beyond what you thought its maximum capacity could be.
Meanwhile, your kids are both upset because the ice cream that was promised to them wasn’t delivered immediately. You forgot they have no concept of time.
Your partner, who agreed to this begrudgingly, is so tense that their fingers are digging into your hip. You’re clenching your teeth so hard you could probably crack a Brazil nut in there.
The photographer keeps saying things like “Just look natural!” while telling you to stand at a 47-degree angle with your hand on your hip in a way no human has ever naturally stood.
You’re stress sweating. Your kids and partner are over it. You’re wondering if this was a terrible idea.
It doesn’t have to be like that.
Picture this instead. You’re watching your two kids feed alpacas. They’re both throwing their heads back in laughter. And you notice that you and your partner are embracing. Not because someone told you to. Not to pose for a picture. Just because there’s this closeness.
And it occurs to you that this hasn’t happened in a long time. That you haven’t been together in this way in a while.
But right now, in this moment, there’s this warmth. The roles have ended. The self-consciousness has dissolved. You’re just a family.
And there happens to be somebody there who knows a lot about light and angles and all that.
That’s what a good family photo session can be. I wrote a full guide on how to prepare for one without spiraling.
coreyflint.com/how-to-prepare-for-a-family-photo-session/