06/01/2026
POV: A couple reaches out and says, “We’re not having a wedding… it’s just an engagement party.”
Me: “Oh, awesome! How many guests?”
Them: “About 150.”
Me: “Nice! What’s the timeline look like?”
Them: “Ceremony at 4, cocktail hour at 5, dinner at 6, speeches, cake cutting, first dance, parent dances, and then open dancing until 10.”
Me: 👁️👄👁️
My camera doesn’t suddenly become cheaper because we changed the title of the event. 😂
The workload is still there.
The editing is still there.
The gear is still there.
The experience is still there.
The backup equipment is still there.
The years of learning how to handle chaotic family photo combinations are DEFINITELY still there. 😂
Wedding vendors everywhere know exactly what I’m talking about. We love you, we truly do, but calling a wedding an “engagement party” doesn’t magically turn it into a backyard BBQ. 🤣
Tag your favorite wedding vendor who has heard:
✨ “It’s not a wedding wedding…”
✨ “It’s very small…”
✨ “We’re keeping it simple…”
…and then arrives to find a full production worthy of its own Netflix special. 🎬💍