06/20/2026
My business coach always drops gold plated words of wisdom, but the most recent nugget I’ve clung to is, “just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.”
So let’s back track a little.
A huge part of my brand is me, which means transparency has always been part of my own journey and the work I do with women. I don’t think every woman needs to share her entire life online, but for me, it can matter.
I’ve been MIA on here for 2 weeks and there is a reasonably-ish good reason for it. Last day of 3rd grade, Mainely Movers event, zillion kid appointments, house decluttering, outdoor projects, learning the pool, surprise family, and THEN also injuring my hand/arm/back, getting horridly sick, family medical stuff, literally working inside my husband’s moving company, and having 3 mental breakdowns for seasoning.
So cute 🙃
Somewhere in the middle of all that, I had to remember the thing I help women see all the time:
Just because I can make s**t happen, doesn’t mean I should be making all the s**t happen.
I’m fantastic at doing, building, carrying it, fixing it, pushing through it. But when I use my capability as an excuse to overcommit, ignore my joy, avoid delegating, or keep putting energy where it isn’t best spent, I’m not being powerful.
I’m abandoning myself.
Ew.
And that’s a huge part of the work ladies.
Pursuing your dreams doesn’t mean life magically stops being messy. It means noticing where you keep leaving yourself behind inside the mess.
Where you’re doing things because you can.
Where you’re shrinking because it feels easier.
Where you’re confusing capability with alignment.
Where your life or business looks “fine” but doesn’t actually feel like yours.
That’s the fog I help women break through.
Not by becoming someone else, but by coming back to themselves. By getting honest about what they want, what they’ve outgrown, what no longer needs to be carried, and what small decisions bring their identity, energy, brand, business, and life back into alignment.
The last two weeks were not island content or festival girl glam.
But they were real.
And I will never regret choosing a life that feels more like me.
I don’t think you will either.