10/20/2026
I think I am quick to forget how much of love is claiming it.
I have always been scared to call someone my best friend. What if that isn’t how they see me?
I’ve always been nervous to admit how important someone is to me because what if I barely matter to them, you know?
But I think I’ve always underestimated how much of loving someone is just paying attention, remembering, showing up, and doing it publicly. So if I love you, why shouldn’t I claim you as my favorite, my best, my only? If I love you, why shouldn’t I beg to stand next to you, invite myself to come, and ask if I can see you again soon?
I think we’re all quick to underestimate how much of love is just paying attention. How much of loving someone is recognizing that the face they are making means they’re stressed, hungry, sad, or lonely. We underestimate how much of loving someone is knowing their coffee order, their favorite jacket to grab when packing a picnic, and their book preferences well enough to suggest a new one. How much of loving is holding them when they need to be held and laughing when they need someone to see the humor in the situation. I think we underestimate how much of love is standing there, ready to support in whatever way is needed, but also ready to just stand there, smiling.
Halle & Kellen love each other, but that was not the only love story involved in their wedding day. After all, how much of love is showing up when you’re wanted?
Luke showed up for Kellen when he agreed to answer to Pookie all day.
Matt showed up for Halle when he helped her make a pink-heart photo prop.
Jordan showed up for both of them when he got licensed to perform their ceremony.
Andrew showed up for Alexa when he gave her his jacket so she wouldn’t be cold.
Dave showed up for Melinda when he bought her a piece of jewelry to celebrate their love story.
Darcy showed up for Abby when she recognized the nervous look on her face before her speech and checked in to make sure she was okay.
And it’s not just these stories - but many more.
These are love stories.
These are “You are my favorite,” “you are my best,” “you matter to me” stories.
I’m so glad to work in love stories.